Family Guide to Independent Learning
- Maribeth
- Oct 28, 2016
- 2 min read
Wondering why some kids can study on their own without much supervision from parents?
Most parents would shiver and say, "Eh kasi matatalino mga anak nila, hindi gaya ng anak ko. Kailangan pa pukpukin para mag-aral"
Kailangan nga ba?
Isn't it they have figured out more effective ways of studying easier without supplemental tutoring?
Question: If you are given the opportunity to learn how to actually support your kids into independent studying (no tutor necessary, just your kid handling himself from thereafter), would you grab the opportunity?
Not to mention teaching them tips on how to get those good, if not great grades.
The background story...
Teaching is my original profession. I had handled all levels from nursery, to college. Also with my background in working among the young people in the local Church community, I was able to get a hypnothesis about making kids enjoy school.
In my youth I was not the type of student who cram the night before major exams. As a matter of fact, I even go to the mall or opt to watch a movie rather than review. My grades was satisfactorily high. I was confident because I did what I have to do while the teacher was there at class lecturing.
If your kid/s hate school, or liked school but has difficulty performing, there might be problems in the following aspects:
Stress/ family issues
Parenting support
School environment: Bullying/ Abuse
Outside influence
Confusion in personality
If what you currently do does not work, remember: They will not learn, nor enjoy school if you keep on insisting that way. Each kid has a prefered learning style and he needs his own room to grow.
My own daughters, Hannah and Stellar did just like that. As soon as they started school, (only one year in Preschool -no nursery, kinder, prep thingy ) I thought them bite-sized techniques that allowed them to love school: Understand lessons while in the classroom easier, do homework/projects on their own and pass their tests. They had those habits at first grade, and until now, they were in fifth and second grades respectively had been regulars in the honor roll.
And it is seldom I have to sit down and help them. My job was to check if they were able to did it right.
It is not that they are exceptionally "matalino". My kids can sometimes be beaten by another student in mere points, but that is actually fine to us.
All kids are indeed are born matalino. All you need is to discover how matalino they can get.
It is not just my kids. I already taught these techniques to other students and their parents even since I was single.
Now is the time I pass this gold nugget, possibly life-changing information to you.
So I am sitting down on my computer putting all those pieces of techniques I saw worked including whick did not work (for learning purposes) into a seminar module. Rolling out as soon as I finish it by November 2016.
If you are interested to learn more, send me an email to counselinghypnotherapyph@gmail.com.
Cheers!
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